August 8, 2025
My friends got married! And I’m so happy for them 😍🥰 There’s nothing more beautiful than seeing two soulmates—or in other words, God-sent partners—find each other and build a life together.
So how does one find such a partner?
You don’t! Because soulmates aren’t found by searching. They appear as you live and grow. For some reason, we’ve adopted the belief that we have to be something specific to be good enough for someone else. And vice versa—that they must be something specific to be right for us. But that mindset belongs to dating culture, not soul connections.
What makes a soulmate different from other partners
A soulmate is literally your soul’s mate. You come from the same source energy. Imagine the soul as a star in the sky. That star is plucked from the heavens and placed to be born as two people on Earth—its light, energy, and power divided in two. These two halves go on living in the world, likely developing a deep yearning to find their other half. If you feel that longing—that sense of “finding the other part of you”—I can guarantee your partner exists.
What can you do, then, if you can’t search?
Live. Live. Live. Especially from the core of your soul. Your best tool is to shine like a lighthouse. Listen to your soul. Listen to your intuition. Grow and evolve. Nurture the parts of you your soul craves. Because when both of you live this way, a path will open that inevitably leads you to the same place at the same time. Your souls are so alike. And in today’s world—where distance is bridged by social media and algorithms—you’ll cross paths even without meaning to.
Faith helps, as always
Be certain. Believe. Do the inner work. Heal the old traumas that might be holding you back. Feel your emotions. You’ll face disappointment and sorrow—that’s part of life. But know in your heart that good will follow. Meeting your soulmate feels like stepping into peace. It’s not fiery or destructively passionate—it’s incomprehensibly calm, because your soul has come home. And how do I know this, when I’m single? Good question.
Remember to ask for something constructive—and be clear
I might share my personal answer someday. For now, let me remind you: you can always ask for help from the Divine. One day I spent the entire day thinking, “How will I recognize the right one?” This thought looped in my head from morning to night—until I meditated with a relaxing guided meditation. And then, completely unexpectedly, I received an answer.
A word of warning, though
If, for example, you ask God to make you feel physically ill when dating the wrong person, beware—you might end up with actual symptoms while waiting. Like chronic heartburn for someone whose job is to meet people. As it happens, when your souls begin to draw nearer to each other, it’s not uncommon to exchange energy. That sudden heartburn? A strange experience for someone living on the other side of the world in a totally different time zone. So from now on, let’s focus on Certainty. The feeling of peace will tell you—and there are no other options but the Right One.
You are already whole
You are already whole. You don’t need to change anything. You just need to flourish and live from your soul. Then you will find each other—without a doubt. I’ve had the privilege to witness a few rare couples over the years who are with their soulmates. This particular friend who just got married has walked beside me this year, and we’ve supported each other’s growth. I can’t even say how many layers we’ve shed. Or how many spiritual deaths we’ve endured in six months—we’ve lost count. But it’s been worth it! Today I’m celebrating their union because this kind of event within my circle is deeply meaningful to me too ✨💖
Let’s bloom together and let our souls shine❣️
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